Bonus post: Do you like me?

Do you remember back in the school days, before phones took over the world – there was thing thing called passing notes in class? Pen, paper and the anticipation of waiting for a response? I known so retro right.

There was one note in particular that everyone wanted at some point of their lives… which kinda goes something like this….

#20. Time to call it

When I saw this post on IG with the backdrop of Taylor Swift’s Exile song, it set into motion today’s thoughts. Maybe it was time to call the relationship as hard as it is. No matter how much both sides want to keep going, there’s just been too much history, repeated conversations and problems, paradoxes of dilemmas to move forward together.

#19. Stop projecting and see things as they are

Gosh it’s so hard to not buy into our old patterns, stories, beliefs whether or not we agree with them. It’s only human nature to hold on to the things that got us through the best and worst times of life. Yet sometimes despite our best intentions, it can actually hinder us in the present to see things as they are.

#18. Rest and reassurance

You know the best kinda relationship to be in whether platonic or romantic? A sense of rest and reassurance. No second guessing. No drama. No overthinking. Just inner peace, tranquility and mind getting to unwind.

#12. L.I.E not lie

All the same mistakes
Just a call away
Someone save me from myself…
I swear to God I’m through

Delaney Jane & Virginia To Vegas – Just As Much

#10. Just remember…

Just remember just as much you’re on the lookout for them, they’re also looking for you and you have to believe in that. Cause you have to have hope, especially on days where you feel like it’s never ending.

#8. Hundos?

Hundos is such an American term… not entirely sure where I picked it up from. Most likely heard it somewhere or read it somewhere that I can’t remember 😉 I like the idea of hundos, cause let’s face it – talking about finances is always a tricky topic to bring up. That being said, usually the initial stage of dating, people only really show you what they want you to see initially. Yet over time it’s evident what their true principles and values are when it comes to the ways of money.

#7. Goal line of us?

Ah I feel like I’m asking more questions than dishing out dating advice. But isn’t that where we get the most ROI though? That’s my business part of my brain thinking 😉 Seriously though, what is your current goal line?

#6. FFL rather than FML

You know you got a promising keeper when you have the elements of friendship, fun and laughter especially when things go downhill. Aka when sh*t hits the fan. Cause in those moments, that’s when you know how solid this relationship is. Scout’s honour.

#5. Eyes on you?

Your time is running out…
There’s the silence, there’s my last chance
I stand up with shaky hands, all eyes on me

Taylor Swift, Speak Now